Move????

So Grace may have an opertunity to have a great job but its in the middle of nowhere Orgen. i could go with her but i whould be even farther away from my kid. its tareing me apart inside. I want to be with Grace more than anything but i also want to see my kid too. i know a long distance relationship is out of the question. plus i whould hate to leave a job that i just got for another one. i think i would do well up there but arg.... it is a long ways off i hope. her dad did just get the job and it will take time for him to know if its a good move for her or not. plus we would go up there to see the area to see if she could live up htere. its just the fact that she made up her mind about it without talking to me about it at all. or very little anyways. i know we have only been dateing for 6 months or so but still. the whole things throughing me for a loop. does she want to be with me or not? she has been amzing to my daughter and has helped me a great deal. i just dont know what to do. when she told me that if she gets the offer shes taking it and moveing. i almost started to cry on the spot. deap down i know if she takes the job i will never see her again. the idea of the job out there sounds great and i think it would be alot of fun but i have a kid and cant just go. i have alot of thinking to do. and i need to know from her where she stands with me. i dont want to move then break up that would suck. i would have lost so much at that point. if it doesnt happen for a year and we are still together at that point....im going to ask her to marrie me. depending on her answer will depend on what i do. i dont know what else to do. i love Grace and i love my kid. but if im makeing that much money then i can afford to do the move and everything......only time will tell